What do you want to be remembered as..?

God has created this world. And human beings are one of the finest creature of our lord. Each one of us came here on a mission.From the very first day we enter in this world,we burdened with loads of expectations and dreams. And we spent our whole life in chasing those dreams.
But by the end of every man's life there comes a million dollar question-" what do you want to be remembered as..?"


When you sit on a armchair after your retirement,when you accomplish your 3D mission- dreams,desire n duty. Then it might possible that a question will arise in your mind that for what quality does this world will remember you. What legacy would you like to leave behind?

Given a choice,would you like to be known for our riches? For power? For your knowledge? As a good professional? Or would you rather be remembered as a man or women of integrity? A kind helpful soul? A good person?

The difference being would you like to be known for materialistic achievements or for certain qualities that life has enriched you with? Would you like to be known for your personality or for the strength of character?

If i would have ask this question then i want to be remembered as a "perfectionist" in my field. After all,my work and the way i present it reflects every thing about my character and personality.So,i want to be remembered as a person who was good at her work. and if character n personality are giving positive vibes then it automatically makes the whole package of good human being.
Actually,character is the result of choices we make out certain universal traits. honesty,moral,loyalty,courage,responsibility,integrity,are some character traits.

On the contrary,personality is more subjective and varies,it includes our character traits our strength,our short comings,the total sum of who or what we truly are.Character cannot includes personality but personality includes character traits. So,its character that gives you the courage to be a good human being. and its good human being that most of us wish to be remembered for.
The only thing worth gaining at the end of it all is good character.





So,what are you waiting for-time to ask this million dollar question from your inner soul... !

HOW RELEVANT REGIONALISM IS..?

The pledge which we have learned & recite so many times in our childhood always reminds me the importance of our mother nation. These lines have entered in our heart & soul.
I quote:- " India is my country. All Indians are my brothers and sisters."

But today- Do we stand with the true meaning of these oaths in its true spirit? Of course, its a million-dollar question,which every true Indian is forced to ponder,thanks to the game of dirty politics by handful politicians.

The vandalism & anti-national thinking of these politicians have left no stone unturned in dividing the " Indian manus" on petty & dirty regional basis. They have tried their best to change the image of India as a country of " unity in diversity" to a country of " fragmented believes" & a country which is devoid of respect,personal & regional identity." Politicians like raj thackery are playing politics at the cost of national integrity. In, Maharashtra, north-Indians are targeted and being chased out from Mumbai on the plea that they are depriving the local people the means of livelihood. Do any progressive India would agree with these views? Certainly not. In fact brilliance,intellectuality of a person is globally recognized & the country ,which attracts maximum number of such peoples are being regarded as progressive country. In our country itself progressive states like Gujarat,Punjab have recognized these facts & are progressing like any thing.

I think its not a question of Bihari or Gujarati but its a ques... of competition.Under our constitutional authority every citizen have right to settle & do their work in any part of the country & no one has right to oppose it. Mr. Raj thackerey is no exception. after all, he is not above the constitution.

" BARACK OBAMA" has proved that integrated man wins election too. Obama is part Hawaiian,part African-American,part Caucasian,part Indonesian and yet it has not stopped him from being the most definitive American. Is Raj thackery listening?

I am from Bihar,but being a bihari,i want to be known as Indian first. I believe that one is either 100% Indian or not. Nation comes first & then only the caste or region comes. One can imagine the status of our democracy,if entire citizen thinks on the line of Mr. thackery. I want the politicians like Mr.thackrey who views India as region of votes & their constituency," to amend their thinking, otherwise they we'll be nowhere".
At last but by no means least i want to state that:- "Winning hearts is important,not the elections".

MUMAI 26/11 - The spirit to move on..!

Life moves in a galloping pace. and i can say hat because,just a year n half back - we have seen a very disastrous and deadly terror attack on Mumbai- the 26/11. A year on and we are still siting ducks. this aftermath on Mumbai's posh destination has raised many question regarding the safety of elite class , as the common man are least considered. this attack watershed the India's fight for terrorism. Now the question is- do things are really changed after this terror tsunami.


In terms of INTELLIGENCE AGENCIES:- Its a bigger spectrum. the reason why there is fewer attacks in UK & US is because their intelligence services are constantly monitoring terror moudles.
we know 26/11 was preventable. there was intercepts from R&AW about the Mumbai terror attacks, but National security advisor(NSA) and the goverment has simply neglected those warnings.

In terms of POLITICIANS:- They are the person who plays everytihng politically. just after the attack, the politicians were sent on enforced holiday. well, that holiday is over now. Vilasarao Deshmukh who was removed as Maharashtra chief-minister, now has a cabinet post in Delhi. Former Home-minister R.R Patil is back in the giverment. Shivraj Patil is about to be appointed as governor.

So,the one visible evidence of change after 26/11- no matter how symbolic or meaningless, has now been wiped out. It's back to buisness as usual.

ALPHA WOMEN

It is very difficult to write about a women in a few pages. She is the most finest creature of our god and its almost impossible to capture each and every segment of women ,because she plays many roles in one life. But i have dared and tried to highlight and introduce our new age, self-made women:- ALPHA WOMEN.

Being a women is like being on the stage for most part of the day- enacting roles,providing your worth,being watched and generally being put to test so to speak. Women are multi-taskers- mother,wife, daughter-in-law, daughter are some of the finest roles that women are playing from centuries. But hold on, its not over,their is one more role that our dynamic ladies perform nicely is to go out work and to make there own identities.

So, welcome to the world of ALPHA WOMEN. Alpha women is defined as a women who puts family and household secondary and her career primary. This is something new for our society,a Male-dominated which is no more dominated.We are noy only matching but we are one step ahead than our male counterparts. It was hard,to be a perfect wife,mother and then to live for yourself.But women are perfect manager, we done it and prove the world that we are no more furniture of your home. But it was not easy. In work scenario which being dominated by male, a women has to prove she's no less capable and then get on with the day's work. If she has to achieve a measure of success, a women has to necessarily be tougher and more focused than guy. For very soon a working girl realises it's better to have a "tough" image rather than a compliant one.

No-man can acknowledge the multi-tasking dexterity of a women. She is usually the one who handles home as well as office.The alpha women are no more shy,soft, and Devi's.Perfect word to describe them is feminist. They are bold,arrogant,confident and fearless. They are not only kitchen queen but boardroom heroine's as well. Today's women have reached a level of self-esteem and feel empowered to express their femine energies.

So, beware you egoistic male,these alpha women have almost irradiated this male dominating society. Now its time to see a female dominating society. We'll no more prove our self. women can and do draw a line in the sand and ask others to follow.

COPING WITH YOUR GRANDPARENTS..!

Today we are so busy in our own world that we hardly get some time to spend with our grandparents,or sometime we don't want to do so specially in the presence of our social circle.This is due to the fact that sometimes our granny ask such types of questions from our friends which is difficult for them to answer. Inquiry about their personal life,family affairs are some of the most genuine question thy ask. But this is due to the change in state of mind of these aged person which comes naturally. They are just uninhibited,which is a natural state of being with senior citizens,as their advanced age leads to some age-related changes in the brain function.

and all these problems and changes arises due to the tendency of keeping the

sliver-haired person away from one's social circle. Actually these aged-person are quite stunned but slowly realising that the world around them is changing and many things that they considered taboo earlier are now acceptable.

but it is our duty to cope with them and treat them in the best manner,in their last era.

* spend some more time with them.

*don't let them starve for company.

*keep a straight eye don't react too much to their embracing statements.

* don't betray them in public.

* and never take their comments personally.

The sliver-haired populance is so tired of proper -behaviour all through their life,that in their golden years,they refuse to hold their tongue. And according to me, it's our duty to give them all pleasures of life,of what we are capable of in their last segment of life.