To be or not to be.. !

I m updating my blog aftr a long time. And the reason behind is that i don't knw what should i write.
Becoz at the end of the day i dnt want to write about "ANNAJI - FIGHT AGAINST CORRUPTION" (as few ppl suggested me) as i feel there r lot more thinker who had given their point of view n people listen them. I m just a victim in this arena - A very own common man.. !
Then my mind clicked n i had a question in my mind.. A million dollar question.

In this competitive world, is there any place for a average man to reach at the top of hierarchy of any association...??

Everybody want to talk abt,write abt,listen abt student graduated frm IIT or IIM.

E.g - 5 point someone one of the most praised novel. It deals with 3 iitans
- Again,if god was a banker ( by ravi subramanium based on corporate world) it deals with 2 iim graduates who achieved grt height in retail banking.

I dnt hav a prob. wit that bcoz its nature's law - survival of fittest.. !
And these iitans n iiams graduates have done sum real hard work during their early phase and that's y god is jus being honest n loyal to them n paying for their hard work.
But wht abt those average students like me who graduated frm a normal private collage n standing in crowd that sumday,sumone,somewhere will recognize his/her talent n potential.
The typical phenomena is that if u r average person then u'll start ur career wit a salary of 3.5 lakh PA n retire with 15 lakh p.a.. Having a normal small car aftr 3-5 years of ur career n ends with a sedan.. !
The common procedure is that if u born average then in mst of the cases u'll die a bit more than average. Only few of them ends with a Merc or Audi.. ! Hence..

LIFE IS REALLY TOUGH....
B READY TO FACE IT.... ! ! ! !

MY BELIEF...!

Just done with my semester exams and I am totally free n unemployed these days. Hence, I am spending some quality time with me i.e. my soul n beliefs..!

Before I move further, just want to confess that I am writing what my mind is dictating to me. One more confess to make is that, while reading this you may encounter words like I. MY, MYSELF many times. Can’t help it I am little self-obsessed..!

It’s been said – that communication is a key requirement to be an effective leader in a large organization. Those who write well learn to synthesize their ideas better, it makes them better thinker.

My mind is a large organization in its self and at least I am the leader of this large n messy organization. That’s why, I am writing about my state of mind to synthesize my ideas n dilemmas well. That may produce me as a better thinker.

I indulge myself in continuous negotiations n communications with my self-belief n many perceptions that my mind builds. It is always surrounded by an aura of confusion. Dilemma to judge my thinking and beliefs, which is utterly different from the person who surrounds me. Sometimes I find myself more appropriate n right than those people who are much more experienced n mature than me. And at this point, my mind n soul argues with each other.

My mind says, I am absolutely right with my thinking. On the other hand, my heart n soul contradicts me that how can I question the thinking of those people who are much more experienced than me. Is this is my over-confidence ( a typical youth mentality as termed by our elders)...? Or I am really more mature regarding my ideas at few instances..!

I am confused & searching for a reason as well explanation. Reason because this dilemma is raising a lot of question my CONFIDENCE level.

And explanation to explain others that my thinking are not immature. I think I’ll find all reasons n explanations after I’ll achieve something in life. My success n my new identity will speak on my behalf & it’ll change others perceptions towards my ideas n beliefs..!

TILL THEN ITS TIME TO ACT….

NOT TO REACT..!

ATTITUDE- A word that better defines me..!

ATTITUDE... This word has always followed me in my school, collage n day-to-day life..! Out of 100 people in my collage 80 of them had declared me a gal with loads of attitude..! well,i take it as a compliment..! But,i really don't know on what grounds people judge me..! I m not writing this to clarify my nature rather, i m asking u all that "what is the meaning of attitude in your words..!"

To ignore your loved ones n well-wishers... Is that attitude..?

To pass on sarcastic comments on the person who had a feelings 4u..! Or to hurt some one with your words . Do u define it as attitude..????

Its not that big question, coz everybody has its own definition..!

But,4me this is not at all what u call "ATTITUDE"...!

Make ur image so that every body wants to talk to you but only few of them got the rights n capability to interact with you..! Some deeper meaning guyz..! N this is my THEORY of "ATTITUDE":- I follow it honestly n regularly..! So, 4 ol of you.. this is YASHSWEY CHOUHAN- a gal with loads of

positive attitude.. signing off n LOVE YOU ALL..!

HONOR KILLING- Dark side of modern India..!

INDIA- Having the largest democracy, one of the fastest growing economy. And we are about to update our status from developing to a developed nation. India is on the fast track of becoming a super power.

This is a new India where everything is modern..

- Night outs for girls is no more taboo.

- Live-in n homosexual relationship are legalized.

- And children's are quite open to discuss about their gal friend n boy friend with their parents.

But at the same time there is another India. The India that has not progressed along or as its alleged messiahs put it "protected itself from the bad influenced of change". It has been left somewhere in between in the darkness of orthodoxy.

And the perfect E.G of this conservative attitude is the "DELHI HONOR KILLING" case. Where a family allegedly murdered its own daughter & her boyfriend in the name of " HONOR KILLING".

The so called " Honor killing" are murders by families on family members who are believed to have brought "shame" on the family name. It is a blot that is not that easy to hide or erase.

Although love marriage and live-in relationship are acceptable in metros but the situation is not same in other parts of the country. The reason is clash of thinking, young educate

d people have changed their outlook with time & start coming out of traditional beliefs system. But their families are still carrying that orthodox attitude. Here comes the clash of ideas & beliefs. Honor killing is the culmination of this clash. But,i think this clash of ideas can be solved with a human approach.

So,lets come & join hands against this barbaric practice which is becoming shame to our country.

And at the end i just wanna say- Its the almighty who decides the end of a persons life and if you are trying to do so then for me you are a MURDERER..!

CWG - A sorry mess in the making..!!

Corruption and politics are quite synonymous to each other. And for Indian politics,it is one of the important feature. Corruption in India is a consequence of the nexus between the bureaucracy,politics and criminals. Today the number of politicians with clean image can be counted on fingers. At one time bribe was paid for getting wrong things done but now bribe is paid for getting right things done at right time.

The much-awaited and prestigious Delhi common wealth games slips on corruption scandals. just 70 days away from the inauguration ceremony of CWG and piles of works are pending and budget keeps on expanding. unless a miracle happens,the infrastructure planned for the CWG will not be completed on schedule. And the reason behind this crippled arrangeme

nt is corruption. The newspapers found that treadmills which have been rented at Rs. 9.75 lakh per piece for 45 days,could be purchased for less than half price. It's been reported that liquid soap have been procured at Rs 3397 per unit when they cost just Rs 460 in the market.

The government has diverted funds meant for SC/ST to CWG- related projects. This corruption,if unchecked,will lead to loss of public trust in state institutions and officials.

Still,just like a typical Indian I am enough optimist to believe that in true Indian fashion we will manage to ride over all obstacles at the last minute and the games will not be the fiasco.
But,this CWG instead of advertising our country and improving the sport sector has added stench to the Indian sports federation in terms of corruption.

LETS HOPE FOR THE BEST..

Why women are still the suppressed creature..?

I am going to contradicts my own views through this article. Just a few days back,i introduced the new age women- The Alpha women.

And this male-dominating society didn't agree with my views.
Now,its time to make you all aware with the real story. Alpha-women captures only a segment of women population.The real story about typical women lies in here:-

-Wearing veil or burkha is compulsory.
-Entering some shrines of Kerala are still not permissible for women.
-And a large number of protest raised by the Roman catholic against the movie-"The Vinci code".

What these examples reflects about our society.It shows that although we talk lot about women empowerment,there are still some points where women are being suppressed.Whether it is in terms of being denied from the chance to be a priest or exclusion from certain ceremonies and rituals.These rules are always different for female species. But these exclusion are symbolic that how Women are being viewed by the society as a whole.
But sometimes its rightly said that we are own worst enemies. Discrimination on the basis of son and daughter still exists in some of the families.Women should be educated learn not to put themselves on the back-burner. Their no virtue lies in serving your entire family and eating last,the virtue lies in that you have to stand up for yourself n what do you think is right.

In order to conclude i just want to say- Women are the most beautiful creation of our god. Don't dis-respect your god by exploiting this beautiful creation..!
And i also want to say that i am not a feminist rather i am just trying to create awareness regarding one of the evil of our society..!

Its Better To Say "GOOD BYE"..!!

There is a famous phrase about match- making.

"Marriages are made in heaven
but arranged on earth.."

Totally agree. Actually marriage and to have a perfect partner is every person's desire. Once you achieve something,mature enough to take your own decision and powerful enough to feed your family.. then you are eligible enough to tie this knotty-knot & live " happily forever".

But this "happily forever" is a thing of past. Are today's marriages came with a guarantee card i dont'think so. Modern Indian marriages don't come with the guarantee of "HAPPILY- EVER-AFTER-ENDING". But hold on.. there's always the next time isn't there? But is this conservative society is ready to accept this second chance.
I believe to lock your self in a broken relationship doesn't make any sense. To its "all over" is no more taboo. Divorce is a healthy remedy for an unhealthy marriage. Now a days nobody depend on their spouse financially. People decide to bond together to live happily. But if this " happy " word is missing then what's the reason to bond together. Some of the victims of broken relationship have decided to compromise and destined to adjust just for their children's..I think that's a strong reason to give a second chance. But to live together just because you're scared to face this mean society and their two fingers pointing on you which ask million questions then that's a silly excuse.. Its your life at the end of the day and a person is his/her own best judge. So,its better to say good bye than to struggle each n every single day. And the point lies in that we are not going to get anything in return from this struggle.

So,the moral is- Life is all about loving Ur loved one n being loved by them. But if u r not getting this love then stop crying.. wipe of f Ur tears.. fight back and stand up for a new start..

"BETTER LUCK NEXT TIME"