
"Marriages are made in heaven
but arranged on earth.."
Totally agree. Actually marriage and to have a perfect partner is every person's desire. Once you achieve something,mature enough to take your own decision and powerful enough to feed your family.. then you are eligible enough to tie this knotty-knot & live " happily forever".
But this "happily forever" is a thing of past. Are today's marriages came with a guarantee card i dont'think so. Modern Indian marriages don't come with the guarantee of "HAPPILY- EVER-AFTER-ENDING". But hold on.. there's always the next time isn't there? But is this conservative society is ready to accept this second chance.
I believe to lock your self in a broken relationship doesn't make any sense. To its "all over" is no more taboo. Divorce is a healthy remedy for an unhealthy marriage. Now a days nobody depend on their spouse financially. People decide to bond together to live happily. But if this " happy " word is missing then what's the reason to bond together. Some of the victims of broken relationship have decided to compromise and destined to adjust just for their children's..I think that's a strong reason to give a second chance. But to live together just because you're scared to face this mean society and their two fingers pointing on you which ask million questions then that's a silly excuse.. Its your life at the end of the day and a person is his/her own best judge. So,its better to say good bye than to struggle each n every single day. And the point lies in that we are not going to get anything in retur
n from this struggle.
So,the moral is- Life is all about loving Ur loved one n being loved by them. But if u r not getting this love then stop crying.. wipe of f Ur tears.. fight back and stand up for a new start..
But this "happily forever" is a thing of past. Are today's marriages came with a guarantee card i dont'think so. Modern Indian marriages don't come with the guarantee of "HAPPILY- EVER-AFTER-ENDING". But hold on.. there's always the next time isn't there? But is this conservative society is ready to accept this second chance.
I believe to lock your self in a broken relationship doesn't make any sense. To its "all over" is no more taboo. Divorce is a healthy remedy for an unhealthy marriage. Now a days nobody depend on their spouse financially. People decide to bond together to live happily. But if this " happy " word is missing then what's the reason to bond together. Some of the victims of broken relationship have decided to compromise and destined to adjust just for their children's..I think that's a strong reason to give a second chance. But to live together just because you're scared to face this mean society and their two fingers pointing on you which ask million questions then that's a silly excuse.. Its your life at the end of the day and a person is his/her own best judge. So,its better to say good bye than to struggle each n every single day. And the point lies in that we are not going to get anything in retur
n from this struggle.So,the moral is- Life is all about loving Ur loved one n being loved by them. But if u r not getting this love then stop crying.. wipe of f Ur tears.. fight back and stand up for a new start..
"BETTER LUCK NEXT TIME"
it is really beautiful 2 c dat ur thots hav grown xpanded out of boundaries...i certainly believe dt strong n positive thinkers lyk u hav d power of changin d society at wateva small thing dey can do...i have thoroughly njoyd d read n look 4ward 2 more intelligent n peculiar questns of d society n ur take on dem...Kudo..keep on goin ...strong straight n brilliant thots..i love it..
ReplyDeleteWhat I feel is, why to come till the stage of divorce..Choose your partner carefully..Don't just go on looks or wealth or whatever he/she says..
ReplyDeleteits not about choosing ur partner, everybody is not dat lucky.. dat u'll get a chance to choose.. n life is nt consistent then how can ur partner.. situation n life changes everybody..!
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